Mother’s Day

Today May 12^th 2013 is being celebrated as Mother’s Day around the world but not in the UK.  So even though I have been living in the UK for over 20 years I do what everyone else does and celebrate Mothering Sunday with the children I work with at http://www.ofsted.gov.uk. However, I always celebrate officially around this time because my mother and the other women who played important roles in my life are living abroad. MM Updates: Most of those women have died and the last time I was in Jamaica was to attend Ms. Connie’s funeral. I published many articles about my life and the people who I have been creating the legacies for, from I joined https://www.facebook.com after coming back from my “Family Reunion” in the Summer of 2009. So much happened to me after the death of my brother in 2008 am surprise am still here writing and updating my stories. 

Even though I told my children that there is a different time for Mother’s Day in the UK, they still salute me as part of the custom at this time too.  My mum is the most important person in my life and for me, every day is Mother’s Day as far as I am concerned.  This week is also being celebrated as Dementia Awareness Week so I have decided to write about the debilitating condition that has mum in its grasp and from which there is no escape.  I know for certain that she will only be released from her misery when the good Lord decided to answer our prayers and take her home to be with her loved ones. MM Updates: The fact that I published on https://www.linkedin.com about subjects from cradle to grave makes me sad that LinkedIn decided to be a cyberbullying criminal and stolen my intellectual property and image rights to cover up http://www.leyf.org.uk and http://www.nurseryworld.co.uk discrimination. The fact that I joined LinkedIn, as a result, LEYF CEO June O’Sullivan sent memos for staff to contribute to her blog. Led to me signing up and adding people because those in the know like Tania Silva declined to act on June’s memo. I recalled how I was treated in the beginning and wrote a post about tolerance. So now that I was advised by my brother to go back into studying, I will show http://www.gov.uk/studentfinance that Linda Dobson is just another ignorant bigot in a position she cannot manage.    

Coping along the way    

My mum has always known, cared for, and be around family friends, and acquaintances who needed special support because of illnesses all of her life from she was very young.  She lost children in infancy; helped to care for her dad, husband, mother; buried her brother, sons, and numerous family but she was always able to bounce back.  Now that the Lord has seen fit to strike her down with Dementia, this has become a trying time for her and the rest of the family.  We know there is no way back and we have to do our utmost best to support her the best we can until she is called home to rest from her toils.  MM Updates: Refer to https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 for why the world must be warned about the discrimination I faced after bereavement and losses and the two miscarriages of justice.

Now that I am older and wiser I will no longer question the works of God as I did when my dad was stricken for over a decade with his illnesses.  I have also come to terms with the fact that I will not be able to get rid of the DNA hence the genes I was born with and is trying to make my life as beneficial as is decently possible until the good Lord decided my time has come to be struck down with any one of my many ailments which I inherited from my parents.  MM Updates: After the miscarriages of justice when the GP at https://www.jobs.nhs.uk refused to give me a Medical Report despite giving me a “Chronic Anxiety” diagnosis in July 2006 to sit the http://www.open.ac.uk Health and Social Care examination. Sponsored by http://unison.org.uk I was left to represent myself at the Employment Tribunal. I was the target of the https://www.gov.uk Legal System and Local Educational Authority and had to start my career from the bottom of the ladder because of blacklisting and networking. When allegations were made against me I self-referred to Occupational Health and seen two doctors, a male, and a female. I was advised by the male GP that the biggest mistake is to join a union affiliated with the Workplace. The female advised me when Mary Curry made contact investigating me. I was admitted to the Out Patient Department and the NHS refuse to give me a Medical Report. Coupled with finishing my studies at the OU and the death of my brother, I was going through menopause and had to carry. Not wanting to let anyone down I continued plans for the “Family Reunion” in the year of my fifty birthday. I don’t know how I survive but I did.     

In the meantime, I am saving my energies to making mum’s life as comfortable as possible until the rest of her remaining days here on this earth? MM Updates: Mum died and her story is in the public domain. For LEYF to set about denying me my rights after her death is clear now after I have done my research. But for http://judicialconduct.judiciary.gov.uk to wage a war to cover up the miscarriages of justice when they have been given opportunities to put things right is beyond my understanding. 

Sometimes I get burden down along the way and as I am only human lose my cool, but like my mum I refused to keep down and will fight for a better outcome.  I have decided to find an outlet for my pent up emotions and use my knowledge creatively by writing about life’s experiences.  So I hope this medium will put me on the road to redeeming myself and enable me to become more focused about the things that are most important to me.  MM Updates: My experiences with the Police from the time my sons were young when they came to my home because of a malicious report that my brother have guns when he ventured into politics remain with me today. That is why when http://www.peachespublications.co.uk and https://www.ryanclement.com sent the Police to my home to section me on the 30 October 2017 I had a meltdown. Because I contacted the Police about the verbal threats from Ryan Clement and Winsome Duncan and they claim it was none of their business. The actions of members of http://www.met.police.uk are documented. Even after I tried to resolve the matter arranging a meeting. Here are examples of the behaviour of the Police Officers. In this https://youtu.be/Vua-mm4ABjI listen to Inspector Owen Pyle who assaulted me. But this conduct was reported in the http://www.express.co.uk after he went to Nottinghill Carnival and posted a boast on https://www.twitter.com, the same that http://www.bwbllp.com got their Legal Team to contact me after the ET judgment which made me a victim was posted online. 

As of today, I hope I can become a better person towards everyone who crosses my paths and my children will be proud of me as a MOTHER the same way I am proud of the Mother who made me into the person I am today? MM Updates: Continuing about the Police in Jamaica, my son’s uncle was taken out of his bed and murdered because of mistaken identity. What the people from the local communities do to the Legister Family is the same as what I am experiencing after the death of my mother. But the actions of https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk beggars belief. Listen to https://youtu.be/8g-7jUGZook to find out why the WWW and Internet must be checked for evidence of what the Police have done to me to cover for LEYF Paedophiles. Because the Police came to my home on the 30/11/2020 to murder me under cover of http://www.leyf.org.uk Margaret Horn Lecture. There is enough proof that if there was no recording of George Floyd’s incident with the Police Derek Chauvin https://youtu.be/OFA_3iD2wM0 would have gotten away with murder. There is Black Lives Matter, but why is no one willing to help me share my story?  

In honour of MUM

 When I was born over ½ of a century ago my mum and gran were the 2 most dominant females in my life as I was blessed with only brothers, so I was always surrounded by males.  This continued to be the norm as I was blessed with 2 younger siblings who turned out to be boys and not the longed-for sister I had wanted all my life. However, I was later compensated for my lack of female siblings by the kind of long-lasting relationships I forged along life’s journeys.  These relationships have led to my having so many role models, some older, my age, and even younger in a support network that spans the different communities in which I am privileged to have lived.  MM Updates: There is an old saying where am from that “When Trouble Tek You, Pickney Shut Fit You” and I have my experiences of Traumas from dad was stricken with http://www.parkinsons.org.uk and my life falls apart. Because I contributed to the Daily Express Mental Health CRUSADE my stories are published in cyberspace. However, please note the following. My Personal Experiences of Parkinson’s Disease – Updated 17/8/2017 at https://plus.google.com/100939131463790195264/post/YoJDpGvhGMG for more. As my reviews on https://www.google.com is proof I share stories to help others. When I posted I know more about Parkinson’s disease than most… on 3/4/2015 I was sent on Medical Suspension in breach of the Contract I signed on 7/10/2009. My publications were used on other websites and I was a Social Media influencer. Later Social Media joined LEYF to discriminate against me. Some refused me access to my account, those where I still have access set out to target me with cyberbullying and cybercrimes making me a voiceless, vulnerable victim despite my publications about subjects from cradle to grave. 

Because of growing up in a household of mostly males, it is no surprise that I grew up to be a typical Tom Boy until I hit puberty when mum tried to put a stop to my Tom foolery ways without an explanation.  However, after much reflection, I can understand mum’s rationale for trying to rope in the stubborn child whom I had become?   I must confess that over the years I have morphed so much into my mum and granny that it is very much uncanny.  I keep reminding myself at times…, but that’s exactly what mum and gran would do in the same circumstances.  Reminds me of some of the sayings like chip doan fly fur from block, kettle a cuss pot black, pig did ask sow wat mek your mouth long suh and sow sey bambye you will see… MM Updates: I must touch on why after seven years in what I now realise is Stockholm Syndrome jail, I have chosen to study my Masters in SEND. I discussed my options of gaining my SEND Teacher qualifications at LEYF Big Childcare Conversation at the Middlesex University with Dr. Chris Pascal http://www.crec.co.uk and Professor Tony Bertram – EECERA https://www.eecera.org when they came into the room and sat behind me. Also present was https://mineconkbayir.co.uk whose BOOK I contributed to as the EYFS Coordinator, SENCO, and Multigenerational Working Approach Facilitator at Luton Street Community Nursery.  I was endorsed on LinkedIn by Chris Pascal on 22/9/2015, the date I was invited to LEYF CO by Neil King to have a friendly chat. This was to trick me into writing a resignation like what was done to Karen Walker http://www.msatrust.org.uk in 2013. She was replaced by Rashid Iqbal and as can be verified by the reviews online that the ET Panel refused the Additional Witness Statement, where there is smoke there must be fire. It was Theresa May Government that rejected my https://petition.parliament.gov.uk/help#standards in 2017. My Open Letters and Reviews of the Employment Tribunal Service and Report to http://www.theguardian.com Is Modern Slavery Thriving in the UK is in cyberspace. Where are those who used to blog about “Men in Childcare?”    

As today is celebrated as MOTHER’s Day (except in the UK) and Dementia Awareness Week (in the UK) I must confess that I am glad to say I still have a Mother who is 89 years and counting. MM Updates: I said my final goodbyes to Mama Lou on 22/1/2014 four days before her 90th birthday. The time I spent with my mother was when I heard her story and that was when I realise how much I had judged mum and questioned her love for me. I compensated by writing a Eulogy/Remembrance so others could understand my mother. I was not the person who could read it as I was still dealing with my PTSD and still comfortable staying in the background where my secret of struggling with my disabilities was hidden out of sight.   

However I am here harking and wishing I could turn the clock back to the time before I discovered that MUM was developing Dementia and tried to break the news to my family.  Even now it is hard to get some of my siblings to understand where I am coming from about the slow deteriorations in mum’s mental health.  Of late her condition has exacerbated to the point where she hardly recognises her children at times.  I share moments with my big breda Balis where I am overcome with laughter or shed tears about some of the antics she gets up to.  MM Updates: When I consider what LEYF did to trigger my PTSD after transferring to BIB I will not rest until I get justice as I continue to invest in https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taA14IVIm9g to raise awareness of the https://www.gov.uk role in discrimination against the Windrush Generation in 2021.

I am a very sentimental person who knows more about Mum than she even knows about herself and she has covered her vulnerability with a cloak to hide the pains and grief she suffered throughout her life.  Like Mum I too have been covering myself with that cloak to get away from the hurts, but I guess not as successful as her as I am always overcome by emotions? MM Updates: I must delve into the discrimination by the Legal Systems leading to me becoming a criminal because my photograph is in HCT Group Impact Report 2016 http://www.hctgroup.org statistic of 1 in 5 of all suicides are associated with unemployment. After representing myself at http://www.moneyclaim.gov.uk against the likes of https://www.39essex.com/barrister/samantha-jones and http://www.womblebonddickinson.com/london I must put on record more of this involved with the Stockholm Syndrome jail I was in for the past seven years. Once I did not commit suicide to suit June O’Sullivan the former Mental Health Nurse. I am now to be 600,000 elderly people say they leave their homes once per week or less.

Here is a list of those involved and others I complained to or was a participant in research:

1. DBS http://www.gov.uk/dbs must remember that I contacted them in 2004 when I worked at Kings College NHS Foundation Trust. I have correspondence about the fraudulent use of my email for an online DBS application from LEYF in 2015. 

2. I must refer MOPAC ComplaintsReviews@mopac.london.gov.uk to https://www.facebook.com/PembrokeHouse/videos/302334554093821/? where am talking about my holistic approach to managing my disabilities? This can be verified via Social Media and http://www.slam-iapt.nhs.uk/ and http://www.radar-cns.org and http://www.heal-d.co.uk and http://www.desmond-project.org.uk from I were diagnosed with borderline diabetes in 2012. 

3.  The http://www.barstandardsboard.org.uk Michael Carter 

4. The http://www.sra.org.uk and http://www.judicialconduct.gov.uk Paul Kernaghan

5. Refer to http://www.ico.org.uk Subject Access Request

5. The CCMCC http://www.moneyclaim.gov.uk and the http://www.courtenforcementserviceltd.co.uk

6. The http://www.wainwrightcummins.co.uk solicitors Tahir Ali and Tim Bittlestone who helped to make me criminal needing Emotional Regulation Treatment. 

7. The https://www.londonambulance.nhs.uk/talking-with-us/ that set out to get me sectioned each time I called for support. 

8. Croydon Magistrates Court S.McAllister Head of Legal Operations http://www.gov.uk/pay-court-fine-online for why Judge Lethem Court Order of 20 May 2021 must be actioned by HMCTS.

9. HM Courts & Tribunals Service nationaldebtline.org and stepchange.org and citizensadvice.org.uk/debt-and-money and gov.uk/government/organisations/hm-courts-and-tribunals-service/about/personal-information-charter for more.

10. Probation Service Twitter http://www.gov.uk/nationalprobationservice and https://youtu.be/DxZvt43AULK for more

11. Refer to http://www.met.police.uk/saferneighbourhoods – Photos and videos of Police 

12.  Refer to http://www.tuckerssolicitors.com claim they represented me at Croydon Magistrates Court. Work in association with  Armstrong Solicitors at Email: johnarmstrong@armstrongsol.com and http://www.armstrongsol.com for more. 

So today I am writing this little ditty as a reminder of the wonderful person MUM is and was, and I thank my lucky stars that dad chose her to be OUR Mother.  Mama has had her ups and downs throughout life coping with all kinds of adversities that would cause a lesser person to hand in the towel, but she never complained about her lot in life and picking the short straw.  She was a stern Mother who never puts up with any foolishness from anyone; she did her duties by her family, friends, and community; lived an exemplary life serving her God and most of all was there to provide care and support for those who needed her services.  She was a tower of strength when dad and later her mum took sick and she eventually had to go out and worked like a man to make sure her family had bread on the table. 

I was in my early teens when dad took sick and over the years I watched as the burdens of life took their tools on MUM, but she never once shirked her responsibilities to her family.  It breaks my heart each time I called to speak to her and sometimes she has retreated to a world of her own where even I her only daughter cannot intrude.  And then when she has some clarity and says things like you are so far away and don’t have money to come and look for me…?  It makes matters even worse.  But I have to deal with the realities of life and know that I have to continue working hard in the UK despite whatever may befall me in order to afford to give MUM a better quality of life.  So it is with a heavy heart I sit here and write this tribute to my MOTHER for the years of dedicated services she has provided.  I know I have inherited all Mama’s traits and there is no escaping, but I hope I’ll be able to conduct myself with as much Dignity dealing with what life throws at me.