Without Prejudice Like Nelson Mandela Am Made A Criminal For My Contributions, Passion About Breaking Down Barriers 7 Years Taking Tolls On My Husband Me


Date: 12/05/2021

Reasons for Dispute  

Thank you for your letter and I want this to be taken as Reasons for Dispute in breach of my Human Rights under the Equality Act 2010 Protected Characteristics.

As part of my Rights included in the Charter Of Rights Your Overarching Code For Justice I will present evidence in my Reasons for Dispute that proves that the continuous checks resulting in DBS barring me is based on the continuing DISRIMINATION of LEYF www.leyf.org.uk and the  HATE Crimes of the Metropolitan Police www.met.police.uk and the IOPC https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk started after my transfer to BIB where the CEO June O’Sullivan sanctioned discrimination.

During one of these checks new information has been identified which has resulted in a status change on your DBS Certificate.

Let me refer the DBS to correspondence Sent: 21 May 2015 20:56. Subject: Application Withdrawn. Appendix 1. DBS email.

This is my argument that the DBS has joined in the discrimination of Mervelee Myers to cover up LEYF Abuse Ring. The information about the Abuse was sent to me by Winsome Duncan www.peachespublications.co.uk who sent the Police to section me on the 30/10/2017 from a malicious report. Ms Duncan was groomed by Barrister Ryan Clement https://www.ryanclement.com to find vulnerable BLACK people online for him to scam. I was introduced to him and he used information from HCT Group Impact Report 2016 www.hctgroup.org statistic of 1 in 5 of all suicides are associated with unemployment to give Ms Duncan after they planned to harm me at her 40th Birthday Party. Because I was unable to attend due to the Judgment https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 I was threatened verbally via the telephone. Ms Duncan sent me an email with the threats to get me sectioned under the Mental Health Act before sending the Police to section me.  Ms Duncan was responsible for placing me in uncompromising situation taking me to Chelsea Football Club where she was keynote speaker. I reported the matter to those responsible and nothing was done. However, Ms Duncan continued her illegal activities claiming I was the Owner of her Business. Appendix 2. Abuse Reviews sent by Ms Duncan.

Number: 001506438948 of a new relevant matter, a new conviction, caution, reprimand, or warning that has been recorded on the Police National Computer (PNC). The Police is responsible for NEGLECTING their DUTY because they are involved in HATE CRIMES against me.

 The following must be taken into Consideration:

1. ET Judgment – 67 Pages Witness Statement. This was the second miscarriages of justice by the Judiciary of England and Wales. My adherence to renewing my DBS from 1998 each time I changed jobs must be considered for why LEYF used my email fraudulently for online DBS application. Appendix 3 List of DBS 1999 to date

 2. EAT Judgment – Refer to Claims sent to CLCC for Designated Civil District Judge to impose Restraint Order. HHJ Dight has a misconduct yet he has joined the TERRORISM with a Telephone Case on 20/5/2021. The Justice Secretary, Lord Chancellor is aware. What about the 12 Codes of Charter of Rights? Appendix 4. Letter about HHJ Dight misconduct.

3. Claims to CCMCC – More cases of Discrimination to deny me my Rights. Some are outstanding for extended time as they keep striking them out, even Claims that are defended. 5. Claims: LEYF, Police, IOPC.   

4. Subject Access Request – LEYF claim not to have any data for me. Here you will find my Additional Witness Statement request rejected when I was sent 3 Reviews about the Abuse online. Should the DBS not be aware of these REVIEWS and what did they do? Appendix 6. LEYF Letter re SAR.

5. Our Decision to Your Complaint – Police – The Police and IOPC are responsible for targeting me from a malicious report on behalf of a scammer. I am sure she is still operating with children, young people, and vulnerable adults. The Police come back to MURDER me on behalf of LEYF. MOPAC say I must wait 6 months for the Review. In the meantime, the Police is working to make me a CRIMINAL and my evidence is in Cyberspace. Appendix 7. Charge for 15/11/2020  

6. LEYF Reference – Flag Safeguarding but see online for LEYF record for safeguarding.

7. Reference from Parents & Colleagues.

8. Fundraising & Social Media.

9. Refused Access to LinkedIn Account.

The Terrorism of the Police

The Police is Responsible for Terrorism against me by colluding with LEYF to cover up ABUSE RING, lying, arresting me unlawfully and beating me up after coming to MURDER me to say I committed SUICIDE. Refer to the Report. Why is MOPAC taking 6 months for my REVIEW?  Appendix 8. GP Notes.

Employment

LEYF must be charged under the Equality Act 2010 Protected characteristics for denying me my ENTITLEMENTS. Refer to response by LEYF Senior HR to my email dated 14/3/2015. I have not had paid employment since I resigned with the 2nd nervous breakdown in a toxic workplace. I told Senior HR at HOC Nursery on 27/3/2015 about my family story and how I developed Childhood Traumas. I was passed fit for work. Appendix 9. Medical Report CBT.

Voluntary Positions

Voluntary Positions – I was unable to get Voluntary Positions after the second miscarriages of justice and LEYF influences. Yet when LEYF refused me access to update my DBS they expected me to bring my DBS from Resources For Autism to be copied. Why is there one rule for Employers and another for employees driven to the end of our tether after the death of my mother. Appendix 10. Letter to Martin Bunch.  Placing restrictions on me via Hate Crimes by Police is making me a PRISONER that will impact on my Mental & Physical Impairment. Refer to https://www.facebook.com/PembrokeHouse/videos/302334554093821/? Appendix 11. Windrush70 photos & more.

The Police Targeted me on Malicious Report to cover they Failed me

The Police must be charged under Charter Of Rights. Appendix 12. Complaints against Police & IOPC.

LEYF knows I have not worked since I resigned with a nervous breakdown and unable to get a job because of blacklisting and networking and discrimination after the death of my mother. Appendix 13. LEYF Long Service Award.  

LEYF set out from 2015 when CEO sanctioned the discrimination to deny me my RIGHTS. The Judiciary Of England And Wales & Criminal Justice System joined LEYF to deny me my ENTITLEMENTS after DWP threatened me with CRIMINAL RECORD. Appendix 14. Letter from DWP.

Appeal Certificate Status

I Was Not at BIB on 15/11/2020 Committing any Criminal Act.

 Status Change on Basis of Accuracy: Refer to the Charge of 15/11/2020. Despite correcting the Police at the interview at Walworth Police Station on 30/11/2020 when I was arrested unlawfully, the Police continuing to charge me. They have ulterior motives for this. The DISCREPANCY in “Our Decision to Your Complaint” is proof that the Police colluding with LEYF to continue the DISCRIMINATION after the death of my mother.

EYFS Welfare Requirement Safeguarding is Everyone’s Responsibility

The discrimination started with ALLEGATIONS that LEYF used to trigger my PTSD from DISCLOSURES in my FILE they refused to return to me. I was sent to HOC Nursery when I raised concerns about my MENTAL HEALTH CONDITIONS, despite HOC is a place where you need Security Clearance to work. I was escorted out on 27/3/2015 with CLAIMS I did not have a PASS and SECURITY was HIGH. I was sent home to rest from my ordeals. My data was tampered with when I was invited to Disciplinary when LEYF tampered with my DATA: Address and am still affected by this. The fact that my email was used for fraudulent DBS online application must be considered. I was taunted by Lynne Kelly whenever I go in the vicinity and I was not tempted to fall for their plots. As can be verified to letter to LEYF Solicitor Martin Bunch after my email was used fraudulently for online application, I keep a paper trail. Appendix 15. LEYF invitation to Disciplinary.

Croydon Magistrates Court

I asked the Solicitors to ask that the Charge be amended, realising this was not done despite the Solicitors saying they did. I asked the judge permission to speak. The failure of the Court to act on my concerns and continue to charge me on 15/11/2020 is cause for concerns for the continuation in the DISCRIMINATION & HATE CRIMES against me. The same applies to why the Manager, a stranger made a Statement I was at BIB on 15/11/2020. Refer to the Reviews online. Appendix 16. Telephone Case 20/5/2021.  

Carer’s Role

I have not worked despite my Qualifications, Training, Experiences and do not wish to go back into any workplace to look over my shoulders for allegations. Appendix 17. LEYF on my Doorstep.  

Denying me my ENTITLEMENT

I have been a PRISONER in my home because of DISCRIMINATION, but I find activities to engage with. To place a BAR on me is to trigger my PTSD and make my life unbearable. Appendix 18. Contribution to Daily Express Mental Health Crusade.    

The impact on my 98-Year-Old Husband

Sometimes he is the Carer and 7 years of DISCRIMINATION taken tolls on both of US.

The fact that when I called I was given information about the Police role in the matter I will continue my https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site campaign about the HATE CRIMES by the Judiciary of England and Wales & Criminal Justice System getting the DBS involved in the DISCRIMINATION of Mervelee Myers in breach of the Equality Act Protected Characteristics. And The Charter Of Rights Codes. Appendix 19. Letter to CRB 2004.  

The following will be copied to the Metropolitan Police and other relevant Departments of Government. Appendix 20. Open Letters to Prime Minister David Cameron & Theresa May.

My Mental & Physical Impairment

I have chosen to Word Process because of my disabilities and hoping this is acceptable as I was used as how LEYF Delivered Reasonable Adjustment at BIB to OFSTED www.ofsted,gov.uk in September 2014. Appendix 21. GP Medical Report 2006. As soon as I helped to get OFSTED result, the discrimination started at BIB. Appendix 22. Ofsted Report.

Awaiting a prompt response and not 6 months like the MOPAC Review while the POLICE, HMCTS, CCMCC, BSB, SRA, CLCC, JCIO, IOPC taking 2 years to address Reviews, complaints, and claims.

Kindest regards.

Mervelee Myers FD (Open)

Mental Health & SEND Advocate.

Appendix:

1. DBS email Online Application.

2. Reviews on LEYF website.

3. List of DBS 1998 to date.

4. HHJ Dight Misconduct letter.

5. Claims: LEYF, IOPC, Police.

6. LEYF letter re SAR.

7. Charge wrongly on 15/11/2020.

8. GP Notes.

9. CBT Medical Report.

10 Letter to Martin Bunch.

11.Windrush70 Photos & more.

12. Complaints against Police & IOPC.

13. LEYF Long Service Award.

14. Letter from DWP – Universal Credit.

15. LEYF Invitation to Disciplinary.  

16. Telephone Case HHJ Dight.

17. LEYF on my Doorstep.

18. DE The Stigma of Mental Health.

19. Letter to CRB 2004.

20. Open Letters to Prime Ministers.

21. GP Medical Report 2006

22. Ofsted Report.

Without Prejudice Time Is The Master And I Have Come This Far Am Not Accepting Defeat From LEYF And Cohorts Paedophiles, Police Who Come To Murder Me Will Be Named 12/5/2021


Disclosure & Barring Service

PO Box 165

Liverpool

L69 3JD

Customer Reference: 49884227

Our Reference: DBS855

Update Service ID: C6272770878

Date: 12/05/2021

My Complaint

Thank you for your letter and I want this to be taken as a Complaint in breach of my Human Rights under the Equality Act 2010 Protected Characteristics.

As part of my Rights included in the Charter Of Rights Your Overarching Code For Justice I will present evidence in my Complaint that proves that the continuous checks resulting in DBS barring me is based on the continuing DISRIMINATION of LEYF www.leyf.org.uk and the  HATE Crimes of the Metropolitan Police www.met.police.uk and the IOPC https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk started after my transfer to BIB where the CEO June O’Sullivan sanctioned discrimination.

During one of these checks new information has been identified which has resulted in a status change on your DBS Certificate.

Let me refer the DBS to correspondence Sent: 21 May 2015 20:56. Subject: Application Withdrawn. Appendix 1. DBS email.

This is my argument that the DBS has joined in the discrimination of Mervelee Myers to cover up LEYF Paedophile and Abuse Ring. The information about the Abuse was sent to me by Winsome Duncan www.peachespublications.co.uk who sent the Police to section me on the 30/10/2017 from a malicious report. Ms Duncan was groomed by Barrister Ryan Clement https://www.ryanclement.com to find vulnerable BLACK people online for him to scam. I was introduced to him and he used information from HCT Group Impact Report 2016 www.hctgroup.org statistic of 1 in 5 of all suicides are associated with unemployment to give Ms Duncan after they planned to harm me at her 40th Birthday Party. Because I was unable to attend due to the Judgment https://www.gov.uk/employment-tribunal-decisions/ms-m-myers-v-london-early-years-foundation-2300047-2016 I was threatened verbally via the telephone. Ms Duncan sent me an email with the threats to get me sectioned under the Mental Health Act before sending the Police to section me.  Ms Duncan was responsible for placing me in uncompromising situation taking me to Chelsea Football Club where she was keynote speaker. I reported the matter to those responsible and nothing was done. However, Ms Duncan continued her illegal activities claiming I was the Owner of her Business. Appendix 2. Abuse Reviews sent by Ms Duncan.

Number: 001506438948 of a new relevant matter, a new conviction, caution, reprimand, or warning that has been recorded on the Police National Computer (PNC). The Police is responsible for NEGLECTING their DUTY because they are involved in HATE CRIMES against me.

 The following must be taken into Consideration:

1. ET Judgment – 67 Pages Witness Statement. This was the second miscarriages of justice by the Judiciary of England and Wales. My adherence to renewing my DBS from 1998 each time I changed jobs must be considered for why used my email fraudulently for online DBS application. Appendix 3 List of DBS 1999 to date

 2. EAT Judgment – Refer to Claims sent to CLCC for Designated Civil District Judge to impose Restraint Order. HHJ Dight has a misconduct yet he has joined the TERRORISM with a Telephone Case on 20/5/2021. The Justice Secretary, Lord Chancellor is aware. What about the 12 Codes of Charter of Rights? Appendix 4. Letter about HHJ Dight misconduct.

3. Claims to CCMCC – More cases of Discrimination to deny me my Rights. Some are outstanding for extended time as they keep striking them out, even Claims that are defended. 5. Claims: LEYF, Police, IOPC.   

4. Subject Access Request – LEYF claim not to have any data for me. Here you will find my Additional Witness Statement request rejected when I was sent 3 Reviews about the Abuse online. Should the DBS not aware of these REVIEWS and what did they do? Appendix 6. LEYF Letter re SAR.

5. Our Decision to Your Complaint – Police – The Police and IOPC are responsible for targeting me from a malicious report on behalf of a scammer. I am sure she is still operating with children, young people, and vulnerable adults. The Police come back to MURDER me on behalf of LEYF. MOPAC say I must wait 6 months for the Review. In the meantime, the Police is working to make me a CRIMINAL and my evidence is in Cyberspace. Appendix 7. Charge for 15/11/2020  

6. LEYF Reference – Flag Safeguarding but see online for LEYF record for safeguarding.

7. Reference from Parents & Colleagues.

8. Fundraising & Social Media.

9. Refused Access to LinkedIn Account.

The Police is Responsible for Terrorism against me by colluding with LEYF to cover up ABUSE RING, lying, arresting me unlawfully and beating me up after coming to MURDER me to say I committed SUICIDE. Refer to the Report. Why is MOPAC taking 6 months for my REVIEW?  Appendix 8. GP Notes.

LEYF must be charged under the Equality Act 2010 Protected characteristics for denying me my ENTITLEMENTS. Refer to response by LEYF Senior HR to my email dated 14/3/2015. I have not had paid employment since I resigned with the 2nd nervous breakdown in a toxic workplace. Appendix 9. Medical Report CBT.

Voluntary Positions – I was unable to get Voluntary Positions after the second miscarriages of justice and LEYF influences. Yet when LEYF refused me access to update my DBS they expected me to bring my DBS from Resources For Autism to be copied. Why is there one rule for Employers and another for employees driven to the end of our tether after the death of my mother. Appendix 10. Letter to Martin Bunch.  Placing restrictions on me via Hate Crimes by Police is making me a PRISONER that will impact on my Mental & Physical Impairment. Refer to https://www.facebook.com/PembrokeHouse/videos/302334554093821/? Appendix 11. Windrush70 photos & more.

The Police must be charged under Charter Of Rights. Appendix 12. Complaints against Police & IOPC.

LEYF knows I have not worked since I resigned with a nervous breakdown and unable to get a job because of blacklisting and networking and discrimination after the death of my mother. Appendix 13. LEYF Long Service Award.  

LEYF set out from 2015 when CEO sanctioned the discrimination to deny me my RIGHTS. The Judiciary Of England And Wales & Criminal Justice System joined LEYF to deny me my ENTITLEMENTS after DWP threatened me with CRIMINAL RECORD. Appendix 14. Letter from DWP.

Appeal Certificate Status

Status Change on Basis of Accuracy: Refer to the Charge of 15/11/2020. Despite correcting the Police at the interview at Walworth Police Station on 30/11/2020 when I was arrested unlawfully, the Police continuing to charge me. They have ulterior motives for this. This started from I was invited to Disciplinary when LEYF tampered with my DATA: Address and am still affected by this. The fact that my email was used for fraudulent DBS online application must be considered. Appendix 15. LEYF invitation to Disciplinary.

Croydon Magistrates Court

I asked the Solicitors to ask that the Charge be amended, realising this was not done I asked the judge permission to speak. The failure of the Court to act on my concerns and continue to charge me on 15/11/2020 is cause for concerns for the continuation in the DISCRIMINATION & HATE CRIMES against me. Appendix 16. Telephone Case 20/5/2021.  

Carer’s Role

I have not worked despite my Qualifications, Training, Experiences and do not wish to go back into any workplace to look over my shoulders for allegations. Appendix 17. LEYF on my Doorstep.  

Denying me my ENTITLEMENT

I have been a PRISONER in my home because of DISCRIMINATION, but I find activities to engage with. To place a BAR on me is to trigger my PTSD and make my life unbearable. Appendix 18. Contribution to Daily Express Mental Health Crusade.    

The impact on my 98-Year-Old Husband

Sometimes he is the Carer and 7 years of DISCRIMINATION taken tolls on both of US.

The fact that when I called I was given information about the Police role in the matter I will continue my https://fight4justiceadvocacy.business.site campaign about the HATE CRIMES by the Judiciary of England and Wales & Criminal Justice System getting the DBS involved in the DISCRIMINATION of Mervelee Myers in breach of the Equality Act Protected Characteristics. And The Charter Of Rights Codes. Appendix 19. Letter to CRB 2004.  

The following will be copied to the Metropolitan Police and other relevant Departments of Government. Appendix 20. Open Letters to Prime Minister David Cameron & Theresa May.

Awaiting a prompt response and not 6 months like the MOPAC Review while the POLICE, HMCTS, CCMCC, BSB, SRA, CLCC, JCIO, IOPC taking 2 years to address Reviews, complaints, and claims.

Kindest regards.

Mervelee Myers FD (Open)

Mental Health & SEND Advocate.

Appendix:

1. DBS email Online Application.

2. Reviews on LEYF website.

3. List of DBS 1998 to date.

4. HHJ Dight Misconduct letter.

5. Claims: LEYF, IOPC, Police.

6. LEYF letter re SAR.

7. Charge wrongly on 15/11/2020.

8. GP Notes.

9. CBT Medical Report.

10 Letter to Martin Bunch.

11.Windrush70 Photos & more.

12. Complaints against Police & IOPC.

13. LEYF Long Service Award.

14. Letter from DWP – Universal Credit.

15. LEYF Invitation to Disciplinary.  

16. Telephone Case HHJ Dight.

17. LEYF on my Doorstep.

18. DE The Stigma of Mental Health.

19. Letter to CRB 2004.

20. Open Letters to Prime Ministers.

Without Prejudice My Hell At BIB Started Eve Of Mothering Sunday 2015 Who Could Believe 7 Years Later Am Going Through Charter Of Rights 12 Codes Making Me Victim Of LEYF, HMCTS, JCIO, IOPC, BSB, CCMCC, SRA, Police, Social Media, Scammers, Trolls


The https://www.gov.uk is #responsible for #LEYF the #paedophile operating out of HOC Nursery

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ON THIS DAY 2 years ago Valdin Legister All things are made possible because of mothers. Today I salute Mervelee Ratty Nembhard, Naheel Julene Brown Legister and the mothers of my children and all the other wonderful mothers out there. I encourage you to sit back, relax and be pampered by your men. Happy Mother’s Day!!!

ON THIS DAY 3 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Shared with Public I am having an early night, have to go to the #FestivalofCommunities tomorrow.

ON THIS DAY 4 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is feeling surprised with Brandon Wright in London, United Kingdom. Shared with Public When we are of 2 minds and wondering which will come out triumphant? 

Without Prejudice The Charter Of Rights Will Reveal Judiciary Of England Wales, Criminal Justice System Protecting Paedophiles In Early Years Sector Targeting Me 2 Miscarriages If Justice In Subject Access, ET Research For ACAS 12/5


The www.gov.uk/dbs must be #accountable for covering up #LEYF and cohorts #paedophile RINGS We hope you enjoy looking back and sharing your memories on Facebook, from the most recent to those long ago.

ON THIS DAY 4 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is feeling surprised with Brandon Wright in London, United Kingdom. Shared with Public When we are of 2 minds and wondering which will come out triumphant?

ON THIS DAY 4 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is feeling happy in London, United Kingdom. Shared with Public Daily www.express.co.uk Russell Grant Taurus: Things are going well, especially on the financial front. For a while, you had to make your resources stretch as far as possible. Now jobs are coming at a brisk pace. You’ll be able to buy a few luxuries in addition to basic necessities. Ok so does this mean I am going to get what’s owing to me before #MothersDay, #58thBirthday, #3rdWeddingAnniversary, #3rdAnniversary of Mama Lou passing or what? If this is the case, everything else will fall into place?

The thumb nail is gone and I am starting again from scratch. Maybe that’s the best way to go? 

ON THIS DAY 6 years ago Arian Murray is feeling blessed with Jean Haughton and18 others . Determination + Faith = DELIVERANCE. If we are determined to press and we have faith as small as a mustard seed we can move mountains. They’re days when we feel like giving up but JESUS is before us, beside us and around us. 

ON THIS DAY 6 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Shared with Public

Now I go eat my Chicken & Vegs, because I’ve got my Appetite back www.diabetes.org.uk. Then I write the Story about my #2Daughter 4 the world. Was inspired by a piece I see in the Express Newspaper about Cuba. I recalled wanting to go learn Spanish after I studied with the OU, & learning so much from 1 of my little charges ZAC at LSCN who used to translate 4 me.

Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Shared with Public 1 more day 2 the BD of 1 of the VIP in my Life. Imagine I only knew WE were born the same month Last Year & I won’t even be around to celebrate the way I’d like to. Well-well-well & they want to tell me there is Equal Rights & Justice in this Country. The blinking ANIMALS are afforded more RIGHTS than ME www.met.police.uk. At least they have the RSPCA to look out for them https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk

ON THIS DAY 6 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Shared with Public Lori Reid Taurus Apr 21 – May 21 Slow down and let worries fall away. Enjoy meeting and greeting people. Although you’re more relaxed, money is on your mind. Out with friends tonight? Check prices first. Be sure you’re not the one who foots the bill. Call me to hear when a job goes haywire.

Mervelee Ratty Nembhard is with http://worldreferee.com/referee/valdin-legister/bio and 26 others at Townhead Baptist Church Westmoreland Jamaica. June 28, 2014 · · Dignified at Mama’s funeral 

ON THIS DAY 7 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard Shared with Public A WEAK away from my Earth Strong & add another 2 days 4 dat odda

Without Prejudice Police, Robert Buckland Is Responsible For The Discrimination Of Mervelee Myers After Death Of Mum Abuse At BIB On The Internet 12/5/2021


So www.jamaicalabourparty.com is #responsible for my #son treating me like a ##mule We hope you enjoy looking back and sharing your memories on Facebook, from the most recent to those long ago.
ON THIS DAY 7 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
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A WEAK away from my Earth Strong & add another 2 days 4 dat odda sorta imp DATE? Here I was supporting my KC TP & AA & IH to reach their ZPD! & then dem want fi cum tell me dat Madonna & my Ideas are Old Fashioned! Well dem cawn guh to FRANCE fram me cause wat me overstan… Dem expect fi tek 2 days larn dem wat I tek 8 years fi get ina fi me DUNCE THICK HEAD! & den dem expect fi cum TEACH Warra Hit http://www.myvision.org.uk>>>>

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In honour of MUM
When I was born over ½ of a century ago my mum and gran were the 2 most dominant females in my life as I was blessed with only brothers, so I was always surrounded by males. This continued to be the norm as I was blessed with 2 younger siblings who turned out to be boys, and not the longed for sister I had wanted all my life. However I was later compensated for my lack of female siblings by the kind of long lasting relationships I forged along life’s journeys. These relationships have led to my having so many role models, some older, my age and even younger in a support network that span the different communities in which I am privileged to have lived. Because of growing up in a household of mostly males it is no surprise that I grew up to be a typical Tom Boy until I hit puberty when mum tried to put a stop to my Tom foolery ways without an explanation. However after much reflections I can understand mum’s rationale for trying to rope in the stubborn child whom I had become? I must confess that over the years I have morphed so much into my mum and granny that it is very much uncanny. I keep reminding myself at times…, but that’s exactly what mum and gran would do in the same circumstances. Reminds me of some of the sayings like chip doan fly fur from block, kettle a cuss pot black, pig did ask sow wat mek your mouth long suh and sow sey bambye you will see…
As today is celebrated as MOTHER’s Day (except in UK) and Dementia Awareness Week (in UK) I must confessed that I am glad to say I still have a Mother who is 89 years and counting. However I am here harking and wishing I could turn the clock back to the time before I discovered that MUM was developing Dementia and tried to break the news to my family. Even now it is hard to get some of my siblings to understand where I am coming from about the slow deteiorations in mum’s mental health. Of late her condition has exacerbated to the point where she hardly recognises her children at times. I share moments with my big breda Balis where I am overcome with laughter or shed tears about some of the antics she gets up to. I am a very sentimental person who knows more about Mum than she even knows about herself and she has covered her vulnerability with a cloak to hide the pains and grief’s she suffered throughout her life. Like Mum I too have been covering myself with that cloak to get away from the hurts, but I guess not as successful as her as I am always overcome by emotions?
So today I am writing this little ditty as a reminder of the wonderful person MUM is and was, and I thank my lucky stars that dad chose her to be OUR Mother. Mama has had her ups and down throughout life coping with all kinds of adversities that would cause a lesser person to hand in the towel, but she never complained about her lot in life and picking the short straw. She was a stern Mother who never puts up with any foolishness from any one; she did her duties by her family, friends and community; lived an exemplary life serving her God and most of all was there to provide care and support for those who needed her services. She was a tower of strength when dad and later her mum took sick and she eventually had to go out and worked like a man to make sure her family had bread on the table.
I was in my early teens when dad took sick and over the years I watched as the burdens of life took their tools on MUM, but she never once shirked her responsibilities to her family. It breaks my heart each time I called to speak to her and sometimes she has retreated to a world of her own where even I her only daughter cannot intrude. And then when she has some clarity and says things like you are so far away and don’t have money to come and look for me…? It makes matters even worse. But I have to deal with the realities of life and know that I have to continue working hard in the UK despite whatever may befall me in order to afford to give MUM a better quality of life. So it is with a heavy heart I sit here and write this tribute to my MOTHER for the years of dedicated services she has provided. I know I have inherited all Mama’s traits and there is no escaping, but I hope I’ll be able to conduct myself with as much Dignity dealing with what life throws at me.

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WE mourn the passing of another of OUR own from the community of TOWNHEAD…? Condolences to the Family of Cousin Molvina Trout aka Ms Molly – (Mass Asley SMITH) who passed away yesterday. RIP Mass ASLEY U were 1 of the nicest blokes any 1 could have in their corner!!! Recalled the many stories U told about places, peoples & times https://www.google.com..

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Wonderful Good Morning to ALL World wide…. Just taking this opportunity to Salute all MOTHERS the world over from the commencement of time immortal who have nurtured US and helped to fashion us into the persons WE have become? Just working on my special Tribute which I need to compose to honour my MUM’s years of dedicated services to her children, grand & great grands & any1 else who were fortunate to be touched by Mama’s kindness in her hey days…. As time marches on I am more than proud to have the poignant memories as well as share a laugh & shed a tear of your new found escapades, which you enter into to help you cope with life…?

ON THIS DAY 9 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
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Moi ago a har Bed fe get up send/receive All dah Accolades going with being a Daughter, Sister, Mother, Auntie, Grandmother, Friend & Shoulder fe Cry pon when dah going gets Tough… Oh how wonderful its 2 Have such VIRTUES!!!

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Gearing up 4 1 of dah Biggest Day in dah Calendar Year – Mother’s Day!!! A Mother is More than just the Person Who gives Birth…? For All those of U who have Nurtured another – Count OURselves BLESSED in JESUS’s Name!!!

ON THIS DAY 9 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
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Buck up Moi Graduation CD from 02.05.2009 so we haffi go see a wat dem put pon it…? Moi did get 1 photo of harself pon Podium, but de Scammers dem fiddle wid Moi senting dem sumuch time dat everything gone!!!

ON THIS DAY 9 years ago Mervelee Ratty Nembhard
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Went 2 dah Train Station Friday 2 top up Moi Oyster… Push Moi card eeina dah Machine & it sey fe remove – but dah transactions nebba completed…? Remove card push it eein again & it sey remove again!!! When Moi lokk dah DIED cashier sidung a play wid har B/B!!! Moi just tun Moi YAIS & give har 1 D/L…
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